Martha turned 35 this year. This time she didn’t feel like inviting anyone for her birthday party choosing to work an extra shift at the hospital that evening instead. Martha’s age started to scare her recently, the older she gets the more hopeless it feels: single, ready to mingle, but NOTHING is happening… I have … More How to get lucky and find the best guy ever
might you think…, and I am already 30! (20, 35, 45, 80… fill in your age). If you feel comfortable about being single and think that you are quite happy to live like that until the rest of your life, please ignore this article. Nothing is wrong with being single if this is what you … More Why am I still single?!?!?!
Last week‘s article What any woman MUST learn in order to have a happy marriage brought in some interesting response that touches deep and important issues. Here is one of them: I really like the underlying thought of focusing at the positive and I think this is very true. However not in every case. If a … More What you should know about the roots of an abusive relationship
Long time ago in my home town in Ukraine there lived a guy. For the sake of this article let’s call him Ivan. Ivan was one of those guys that seemed “invisible” to me. I would neither call him handsome or attractive in any way. He was surely a great guy but I personally would … More What any woman MUST learn in order to have a happy marriage
A few years ago I was attending my highschool reunion gathering. Girls only. It was a bit weird to discover that my gals now happened to turn into adult and mature women most of them married, some having kids, some still single and one of them already divorced. As we were chatting about life and … More 1 thought that is destroying your marriage.
Today is my birthday! I have turned 31! On the day like that I like to look back at my life and analyze, learn and plan ahead. I believe that every person has his or her stronger sides or patterns of behavior that help them receive what they want in life. It’s just that we … More My 3 secrets to a fruitful life
Very often we run through our lives on autopilot. We are doing things because they need to be done and even though we might experience some dissatisfaction about life we don’t dare to stop and consciously think about that. That is because it might hurt, or give this uncomfortable feeling of self misery, or the … More Is your life out of balance?
I don’t know about you but when I watch mainstreem romantic hollywood movies I get an impression that true love is something a-la Cinderela story type of thing. You meet that perfect person, get that amazing feeling, get together, get a little conflict but the feeling is so strong that the conflict just dissapears, and … More What is true love? 7 stages of a relationship
When I think of what happiness is I think of little children. They are able to feel the joy of life in a simple fact that they are alive, and not because of what they have. As we grow up we learn to accumulate negativism. Fears, problems, disappointments all make us feels like happiness is … More How to be happy? 4 steps towards the joy of life